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Are these not two of the most gorgeous pictures you have ever seen? And these are outtakes? WTF??

Sweet Jesus...Robert Pattinson is beautiful. So is Kristen. Look how completely at ease they are with each other. Takes my breath away.

OK. The Twilight blitz is on. There are interviews and photos and videos EVERYwhere right now. And guess what? I cannot get enough of Rob. Surprise! Surprise! I never get bored with him. He always has something cute, and honest and thoughtful to say.

This week is the 'Hot Topic' mall tour. I have never heard of Hot Topic, but there isn't one around here. Needless to say, after the horror show that happened in San Francisco, other venues were better prepared for the hysteria. I actually find it a bit tedious. Rob has stated in many interviews how frightening and surreal all this screaming is. Being mobbed and screeched at doesn't sound like a lot of fun to me. He said he DOESN'T WANT PEOPLE SITTING OUTSIDE HIS HOUSE. Good grief, I hope these shrieking lunatics never find out where he lives. I don't understand how treating Robert like he is a piece of meat...something to be pulled and ripped apart...is being a fan. Don't you people want to hear what he has to say? Can't you look at his face and see his terror? How does screaming and yelling help anyone? He looks scared a lot of the time...I just want to hug him and protect him from all those scary, creepy people. And you know what the rub is? Robert feels BAD for the fans. He has compassion for those who had sat outside and waited to see him. He's a better celebrity than most people are fans. Show him some R-E-S-P-E-C-T, people. It's not asking much, is it?

Vanessa Hudgens not the role models parents want?

She did what?!

Vanessa Hudgens of "High School Musical" fame faced scandal last year after her own nud3 photos surfaced on the Internet.

What's expected is that tween fans may feel conflicted and want to talk it out with a parent. For a parent, that means listening, not proselytizing.

"Rather than saying, 'Can you believe that happened?', ask your child her opinion about this," advises Debra Beck, author of "My Feet Aren't Ugly: A Girl' Guide to Loving Herself from the Inside Out."

"Look at it as a learning opportunity, and let kids explore their own feelings about it without giving your opinion."

And give your tween or teen credit for knowing the dangers of having potentially embarrassing photos on her MacBook.

"The teen is smart enough to figure it out and if you start lecturing, she will shut down," Beck says.

If your child doesn't want to talk about it at all, don't push it, experts say. Give your kid some space and tell her that if she doesn't want to talk at the moment, maybe you can revisit it another time.

A day or two later, bring up the name of the star in question, but in a casual way.

Ask your child what movies the star has been in, and what your child likes about that particular star, says Stanford University adolescent psychologist Lisa Medoff, author of the "Stressed Out Students' Guide to Handling Peer Pressure."

Kids often have a fantasy life about teen pop stars and actors, says clinical psychologist and family therapist Leslie Seppinni.

"When something like this happens, look at it as an opportunity to talk to your child as an adult," she says. "Don't point a finger and say, 'Don't you dare do the same thing.' "

You have to trust that your child is smart and savvy enough to figure some things out, Seppinni says. And don't worry that your child is now going to put up nude pictures of herself on Facebook.

But if the star in question is their only role model, it could be cause for concern.

"Tweens idolize celebs, but as long as they have other role models in their life exhibiting good behavior, it's not a worry," Medoff explains.

The bottom line is that teen and tween behavior is much more likely to be influenced by peer pressure, what is going on in the home and what is happening at school than by what a pop star does, Seppinni says.

"Kids are more likely to be influenced by their day to day reality than by their fantasy world," she says.

The message you want your child to take away is that money and fame do not equal happiness, Seppinni says, adding, "This is a good life lesson for them to learn."

Worried for Rob.

OK. So, they had to cancel an appearance by Rob in San Francisco. Why you ask? Because they were expecting only 500+ to show up and they got over 3000 people. WTF? Do these people not have any idea what is going on with Twilight, and specifically Robert Pattinson? So, they didn't have enough security and police to handle all the people. PLUS, there are always going to be the lame ass fans who feel ENTITLED to push and shove and scream, no matter what anyone says. Honestly? I'm glad they cancelled it. Better disappointed fans than a hurt Robert. Some of these so called fans are fucking scary. Rob has said in countless interviews that its just one screaming mob to the next. Does that sound like he enjoys it? He does it as part of his job, but that doesn't mean he has to like it. Get a grip, people. I wouldn't blame Rob one bit if he cancelled the whole mall thing. It's just chaos anyway. One continuous scream. It doesn't matter what he does...what he says...it will all be just screams and screeching...

CREEPY AS HELL, OK? Don't forget Rob isn't a vampire. He's human, and he's only 22 years old. Yes, I said ONLY 22. Cause that's young. And to be thrust into this madness...is scary. I just want him to be protected and taken care of. (((HUGS))) to Robert.

Another thing. The movie is less than 2 weeks away. The onslaught of interviews and movie clips (God, I love the movie clips) is overwhelming at times. I know I use the word "overwhelming" a lot...but it's so apt for describing what I feel. I cannot get enough of Robert...and Kristen...and the movie...but there is so much going on, that I get discombobulated trying to keep up. *sigh*

But its a good thing. I love all the interviews with Rob. He's just so down to earth, so humble, so thoughtful. It's odd how soft spoken he is. I have to turn up my volume just to hear him sometimes. And dammit...he's so sexy. Ok, then.

Robert? Please, PLEASE take care of yourself. Don't let anyone put you in a situation that you are not comfortable with. Stay safe.

The Reasons to hate Vanessa Hudgens?

Some people hate Vanessa Hudgens with so many reason like below...

I don't like her at all.
Vanessa Hudgens sounds like a squeakbox, has an ugly boyfriend(and thinks girls are jealous of her)and she's a horrible role model.I mean, did you see those pictures?
She's a fake too. Those pictures came out last year and now she acts all innocent and angelic when really, she ISN'T.

I think Vanessa Hudgens is a little to old to STILL be on the stupid disney channel, I think she is a disgusting role model, have you seen those pictures? ugh , I nearly barfed when I looked at them . She needs to grow up .

I don't hate her, but I don't love her.

Vanessa is gives off a slutty image, Way overacted.. she has an average voice, nothing special. i dont know why people make a fuss about her

Hudgens is overrated. I don't pay attention to disney people.

...But... "me"
I don't hate Vanessa Hudgens cuz idk her but i do think she thinks shes all good and pretty shes not all that ,, and her pictures.. well every one makes mistakes you know its not like she intented her pictures to go out in public,,,

:(